The Smile That Sparked a Revolution


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While social media has helped bring people together, let’s face it-sometimes our virtual lives can get uncomfortable and overwhelming. Sites like Facebook has brought people together but they have also created a stream of non-stop chatter, some of them highly charged with egotism and negativity.  Sometimes when I finally log out of Facebook, I feel like I have just left a warzone.  While I believe that everyone is entitled to their personal opinion, the anonymity and lack of face-to-face contact that people are afforded online unfortunately also encourage plenty of dramatic and ‘I don’t care who you are’ exchanges. In the virtual world, words are weapons and people are using them pretty recklessly.  This virtual anarchy has seeped into well-intentioned social groups. Instead of building bridges, we are burning them.  Donge La Mombasa was such a group. While we (the members) were well meaning and intent on producing positive change in our native city, our social tango was a hot mess. Metaphorically speaking, we had the right dance moves but our lack of cohesion made for a dance troupe with dancers constantly tripping over each other.  Arguments were plenty and accusations were almost a daily occurrence.  Needless to say, our Facebook group was in pure chaos.

Recently, one of the group members posted a video of a young quadriplegic man from Tanzania asking for financial assistance in buying a wheelchair. Posts of pleas are fairly common online but this particular one not only changed our virtual group dynamic, it united people from all over the world. It was the smile that revolutionized our little community.

The name of the young man in the poster is Ahmed and he was injured in a diving accident that paralyzed his body from the neck down.  His physical injuries were evident, but what of his mental and emotional scars? Honestly, I think anyone who has been through what Ahmed has been through has every right to wallow in self pity.  Total paralysis; words fail me in my attempt to imagine the unimaginable.  But what does Ahmed do instead? He smiles.  He smiles with courage in the face of tragedy, hope against all odds, and a determination to live joyfully no matter his circumstances. I had an opportunity to talk to him on the phone and honestly if it wasn’t for my prior knowledge about his condition, I would have thought that everything was going great for him.  I would have thought that he had a ‘normal’ life.  Charming, courteous and ever so cheery, Ahmed is the kind of guy that leaves you with a sense of joy that lingers long after you’ve said your good byes. I wasn’t the only one that was captivated by him. Pretty soon after the video was posted in our group, members rallied together to help him out. The noisy members focused their energy on fundraising discussions and the dormant ones jumped out of their hibernation holes and started participating too.  Our personal differences no longer mattered in our pursuit to achieve one common goal-to raise enough money to buy Ahmed his wheelchair.  Posters and videos were produced, emails and text messages sent out, and phone calls made. In a matter of hours, the fundraising video had gone viral.  Ask anyone who has connections to Mombasa and Tanzania about Ahmed and chances are they know him now.  People in places as far flung as China were sending in their donations.  Men, women, poor, rich, powerful, ordinary-people stood up in solidarity with Ahmed.  After a mere 48 hours, we had raised enough money to buy him the wheelchair that he so desperately needed.  In a further fortunate twist of events, Ahmed was also reunited with long lost relatives living abroad who recognized his name from the forwarded posters and video.

There is a popular analogy that compares life to a ripple in a pond. When you throw a stone onto a pond, it causes a ripple, and subsequent ripples goes on to cause bigger ripples, and so on and so forth.  One ripple, no matter how small, has the capability of changing the energy of the entire pond. Ahmed’s smile was the one tiny ripple that changed our community for the better.  It reminded us that while we may not have the ability to control what life throws at us, we have the ability to choose our reaction to life’s wrenches.  We may not end up with the life that we dreamed of, but our attitude towards it will determine whether we live in the pain of the past or in the joy of the present.

Ahmed may have gotten his wheelchair but we gained much more.  We gained the realization that when it comes to community, unity is everything. Unity, or lack of it, will determine the survival and continuity of our community, and indeed, identity in general.  Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) is quoted to have said “The faithful, in their love for one another and in their having mercy for one another and in their kindness toward one another, are like one body; when a member of it ails, all the parts of the body call one another to share the pain through sleeplessness and fever.” (Muslim)

The social environment in Donge La Mombasa has been cozier and less abrasive lately than in the days past, but as with any family, we are bound to have our share of dysfunctions.  I have no doubt that there will be disagreements along the way.  I only hope that when that time comes, we can pull back Ahmed’s smile from the archives of our memories and remember that in the end, love is all that matters.

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17 thoughts on “The Smile That Sparked a Revolution

  1. Jazakallahu khairan ukhti for recording this incident that inspired us with the dutiful action taken by the community.

    The Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: “He who relieves a hardship of this Dunya for a believer, Allah will relieve a hardship of the Day of Resurrection for him.”

    Hopefully all concerned shall reap what they sowed and may Almighty Allah (subhana wa taala) continue to grant akh Ahmad Sabr and ease his path. May he continue to SMILE as smile itself is sadaqa.

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    1. Yes, I do believe that a sincere smile, no matter it’s humble form, tends to be the most powerful form of sadaqa. We have an innate goodness that just needs to be coaxed out gently. Thank you for your thoughtful comments;I’m eager to explore your blog as well. God bless you.

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    1. Shukran for reading this post Raheem. It if humbling and indeed a joy for me when someone takes time out of their lives to read what I wrote. Ahmed really is an inspiration, and so is everyone else in our Donge community. Alhamdla. Despite what we read in the news, there is still alot of goodness in the world.

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  2. so inspiring, I have heard of the unfortunate accident of Ahmed through other means bt to see our youth come together and direct their energy into a positive force is something to be appreciated.. keep the fire burning donge la Mombasa, so many other Ahmeds are out there that require positive influx in their lives,

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    1. Thank you for reading this post crazeeoptimist. Yes I agree, there are so many other Ahmed’s out there. Inshla, little by little we will get to them. I am truly inspired by my community. People are calling in like crazy still, offering their support and prayers. If we were to measure wealth by kind words, then we are trillionares. 🙂

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      1. Oh, your writing is great, it makes the readers connect with the situation, the moment and actually picture it.
        All the best in your endeavours and future projects dear trillionares 😀

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  3. Indeed our group was in “pure chaos” alhamdulilah for the glue that came in form of Ahmed who truly brought all of us together to do something even if small, though in unity, brought out the goodness of human nature. Love your blog, I’m hooked.

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  4. YOU ARE AMAZING SISTER WHO HAS PUT THIS PIC OF AHMED WHILE HE IS SMILLIMG !!! THIS SMILE MEANS A LOT WE SHOULD ALWAYS BE HAPPY FOR WHAT EVER WE HAVE COS LOT OF PEAPLE CAN’T EVEN SMILE. WITH LOVE

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  5. Mashallah, this is so nice Mwana Pate.
    Ahmed look good as well, May Allah give him
    strength till last minute inshaalah. i wish him a
    quick recovery.

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